There’s no perfect formula for balancing it all—trust me, I’ve tried to find one. As a mother of two energetic boys, a wife, and a woman building a business in the demanding world of finance and technology, balance often feels like chasing the wind. Yet, through each season of growth, I’ve realized that balance isn’t about doing everything—it’s about learning what truly matters.
When I first started She Speaks Business, I wasn’t aiming to be “superwoman.” I simply wanted to share what I was learning—practical business strategies, lessons from my own mistakes, and the quiet truths that come from trying to be a present mother while building something meaningful. Over the years, this platform has evolved into a global space where women can connect, learn, and rise together.
Today, I want to open up about the real story—my journey of growth, the mess behind the moments of success, and the beautiful chaos of entrepreneurship and motherhood.
Because behind every achievement is a story of trying, failing, learning, and trying again.
The First Step Toward Balance
I used to think balance meant perfection—a flawlessly clean home, kids on schedule, clients happy, deadlines met, and dinner served hot. Reality quickly taught me otherwise. Balance, I learned, isn’t symmetry; it’s rhythm. Some days, my rhythm is fast and fierce; other days, it’s slow and tender.
Women keep pushing themselves to be perfect at everything—mom, partner, work, you name it. Honestly, real strength is all about giving yourself some grace, not chasing every gold star.
There were mornings when I’d be finalizing a financial proposal while packing school lunches or answering tech emails during bedtime stories. I used to feel guilty—like I was failing at both. But slowly, I realized that balance is not about equal distribution of time; it’s about being fully present in the moment you’re in.
The moment I stopped chasing perfection and embraced progress, everything began to change. My business grew, my home felt calmer, and I rediscovered joy in the small things—a warm cup of tea, a conversation with my husband, and a quiet walk after a long day.
Building a Business with Purpose
When I started She Speaks Business, I didn’t have a grand strategy. What I had was purpose—a desire to help women see that they, too, could build thriving businesses without losing themselves.
The business world, especially in finance and tech, can often feel like a man’s game. I’ve sat in boardrooms where I was the only woman and spoken in conferences where female voices were a minority. It was intimidating at first, but it also fueled my mission: to create a space where women’s perspectives aren’t just included—they’re celebrated.
I learned early that purpose gives you direction when everything else feels uncertain. It keeps you grounded when success tempts you to lose yourself. Every strategy, every decision, and every piece of content on She Speaks Business is driven by the same belief—women don’t need to shrink to fit the business world; the business world needs to expand to include women.
Running a digital publishing business taught me how powerful stories can be. A single article can ignite confidence in someone across the globe. And that’s the heartbeat of what I do—turning experience into empowerment.
Motherhood: My Greatest Leadership Training
Motherhood has been my most transformative MBA. It taught me patience, adaptability, and how to manage chaos with calm. When you’re running a business and raising two boys—Syed Ali Waris and Syed Haider E Karar—you learn to make quick decisions, set boundaries, and communicate with empathy.
There’s something profoundly grounding about motherhood. It reminds you that success isn’t measured only by profits but by the people you love and nurture. It also makes you realize that time is your most valuable asset.
I used to believe that motherhood would slow me down. Instead, it made me sharper, more focused, and far more compassionate as a leader. It pushed me to manage my energy, not just my time.
Women keep pushing themselves to be perfect at everything—mom, partner, work, you name it. Honestly, real strength is all about giving yourself some grace, not chasing every gold star.
The Role of Support and Partnership
Behind every strong woman is a circle that holds her up. My husband has been that anchor for me—a quiet strength that allows me to fly without fear. In business, too, support matters deeply. Whether it’s a mentor, a community, or a trusted partner, having people who believe in you makes all the difference.
Early in my journey, I learned that you can’t build an empire alone. Success is a shared effort. I leaned on coaches, fellow women entrepreneurs, and even my kids for inspiration. My sons remind me daily why I started this path—not to prove anything, but to build something meaningful.
Balance doesn’t mean isolation; it means connection—with yourself, your family, and your community.
Lessons I Learned While Growing in Business and Life
Over the years, I’ve learned a few lessons that continue to shape how I live and work:
| Lesson | Description |
|---|---|
| 1. Balance Changes with the Seasons | Sometimes work pulls you in, sometimes family does, and that’s just how life rolls. |
| 2. Forget Chasing Perfect | What matters is showing up real and making a difference. |
| 3. Self-Care is Strategy | You can’t pour from an empty cup. Taking care of yourself fuels every other role you play. |
| 4. Learn to Say No | Every yes costs you something—time, energy, or peace. Protect what matters most. |
| 5. Celebrate Small Wins | Progress, not perfection, builds empires and confidence alike. |
Each of these lessons came through trial and reflection, through moments of exhaustion and inspiration alike.
Faith, Resilience, and the Bigger Picture
Faith is at the center of everything I do. It’s what gives me strength when things don’t go as planned and humility when they do. I’ve learned to trust timing—that not every delay is denial, and not every failure is final.
Resilience isn’t about being unbreakable; it’s about being rebuildable. Each setback in my business journey taught me a new skill, a better system, or a deeper understanding of myself.
Faith reminds me that I’m not in control of everything—and that’s okay. My role is to show up with integrity, courage, and consistency. The rest unfolds as it should.
Read More—Here are 5 Ways Blogging Transformed My Confidence as a Businesswoman.
Empowering Other Women Through “She Speaks Business”
She Speaks Business isn’t just a brand—it’s a movement. A space where women from different walks of life can learn, grow, and share their stories. Every article, workshop, or podcast I publish is built around one idea: when one woman shares her truth, she gives another permission to rise.
I’ve seen women take bold steps after reading a single post—launching businesses, negotiating better pay, or simply believing in themselves again. That’s the ripple effect I live for.
Empowerment is not about giving women power
it’s about reminding them they’ve had it all along.
FAQs
How do you manage time between business and family?
I plan around priorities, not perfection. I dedicate time blocks for work and family, but I stay flexible when life happens.
What inspired you to start She Speaks Business?
The need for authentic conversations about women in business—real stories, not highlight reels.
What advice would you give to women trying to balance it all?
Start by defining what “all” means for you. You can do many things, but not all at once.
How do you stay motivated during tough times?
By revisiting my “”why”—my family, my faith, and my mission to empower women.
Do you believe women can have it all?
We can have what truly matters, yes. The secret is to define success on your own terms.
How do you deal with guilt as a working mother?
By replacing guilt with gratitude. Every moment I spend building is an example to my sons of what’s possible.
Final Words
Balancing it all isn’t a destination—it’s a lifelong dance. Some days it’s graceful; other days it’s messy. But every step teaches you something about strength, love, and purpose.
As women, we don’t need to have it all figured out. We just need to keep showing up—for our dreams, our families, and ourselves.
I’m still learning, still growing, still balancing—and if you’re doing the same, you’re not alone.
Let’s keep walking this path together, one real, beautiful, imperfect step at a time.
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Best regards,
Fatima K.
Writer. Mother. Dream Builder. Founder.
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